Why They Should Go
A better life is within reach
More Education: Realize the Benefits
Helping a child get more education is the greatest gift you
can give.
Today, education beyond high school is practically a
necessity to build a better life. Whether it's a 2-year or 4-year
college degree, or a trade or technical certification program, more
education opens doors to more opportunities.
Research proves that education beyond high school leads to
better paying jobs and lower unemployment. In fact, some studies
show that it benefits the entire family, now and into the future.
The bottom line is, your child or the child in your care
should continue education beyond high school. And any support you
can provide will be a huge help.
Possible Concerns: Meet Them and Defeat Them
If you are like many parents or caregivers, you might have
concerns about whether your child should pursue education beyond
high school. That's natural. But confront your concerns head on,
and they will seem much more manageable.
"But I need her to help around the house."
It's possible she can pursue her education without leaving
home. And in the long run, helping her get an education may be an
even bigger help to the family.
"But I need him to get a job and contribute to the family
income."
Some kids pay their own way through college, reducing the
family's income needs. And with more education, he will be able to
get a better-paying job in the future, helping him contribute more
to the family in the long run.
"But I didn't go, and neither did anyone else in the
family."
Our economy has changed quickly in just the past few decades.
Job requirements or expectations for your generation may not be the
same for your child's generation. Today, many of the best jobs
require additional education.
"But I will miss her not being at home."
Again, it's possible she can continue her education by
attending a nearby school while still living at home. If she does
attend an out-of-town school, there are lots of ways to stay in
touch, like letters, e-mails and phone calls. And there will be a
lot of opportunities to see her, like winter and summer breaks, and
even parents' weekends.
"But we just don't have the money."
Many of the students featured on this site come from families
with very limited incomes. But they found ways to go. You might be
surprised at how many financial aid resources are available. Cost
might be a hurdle, but it's not a roadblock.
"But he doesn't need more education for the jobs available
around here."
It might seem that way, but some jobs may have more
educational requirements than you realize. And you may not be aware
of all the opportunities. Also, it's possible your child may not
live in one place all his life. Job markets can change rapidly, so
the career flexibility more education can provide will be a
valuable asset.
"But she has a child of her own to care for."
Being a parent can make getting an education more difficult.
But thousands of parents have done it, and your child can too. Many
schools provide services, such as on-campus daycare, for students
with children. And with more education, she will be a much better
provider for her child in the long run.
"But his grades aren't good enough."
A child whose grades haven't been the best can still go. If
he still has a year or more before high school graduation, it's not
too late to work on raising that GPA. Get involved at his school,
offer your help and support and make your expectations clear to
him. If he will be graduating soon, consider community colleges,
which can have more open admission policies. Trade and technical
schools are other good options.
"But she has special needs."
Children with special needs, whether from a medical, mental,
emotional or learning disability, can continue their education
beyond high school. Many mainstream postsecondary schools provide
assistance and services for students with special needs. There are
also some postsecondary schools devoted exclusively to special
needs students. The Higher Education section of DisabilityInfo.gov
is an online resource that lists programs for the learning disabled
and special needs communities.
"But he has been in jail."
Serving time in jail or prison doesn't automatically
disqualify him from receiving federal student aid. Once he's
released, he can apply for all types of federal student aid. Even
if he is currently incarcerated, he still has limited eligibility.
For more information about how incarceration affects his
eligibility for federal student aid, contact the Federal Student
Aid Information Center at 1-800-4-FED-AID.
"But she isn't ready to be independent."
Almost every parent or guardian feels this way at some time.
Many are surprised at how a little independence can help kids show
more responsibility. In general, college helps students gradually
ease into adult independence. And if she goes to a local school,
she can continue to live at home until you both feel she is ready
to be more independent.
Visit college@ed.gov today for more information.