Help for victims of domestic abuse

SPRINGFIELD, Mass. (WWLP) - The call that took Kevin Ambrose's life stemmed from a domestic dispute, a situation that unfortunately is quite common for emergency responders. In one 24-hour period in 2009, more than 2-thousand Massachusetts victims needed help for domestic violence.

Advocates and counselors who serve victims of domestic abuse encourage safety planning, whether the relationship is planning to be continued or it needs to end.

The deputy director of the YWCA of Western Massachusetts told 22News a restraining order is an excellent tool for some victims, but it should be done within the context of a safety plan. If a woman wants to stay at home, what are some steps she can take if an incident occurs? Is there a specific area at home that is safest? What conversations should happen with kids or supportive neighbors or work?

“I think when we're in the middle of a situation that is abusive, sometimes it's hard to think when we're by ourselves. To be able to have an advocate, somebody to really talk things through, is one key toward staying safe,” said Jodi Smith, who serves as deputy director of the YWCA.

To learn more about safety planning with an advocate, or the many other resources offered by YWCA, visit their website YWWorks.org , or call their 24-hour emergency hotline at 413-733-7100 or 800-796-8711.