Resources for domestic violence victims

HOLYOKE, Mass. (WWLP) - Monday's call that took Officer Kevin Ambrose's life stemmed from a domestic dispute--a situation that unfortunately is quite common for emergency responders.

In 2009, just in one 24-hour period alone, more than 2,000 victims in Massachusetts needed help for domestic violence.

Advocates and counselors who serve victims of domestic abuse encourage safety planning, regardless of the direction the relationship is going.

Experts say a restraining order is an excellent tool for some victims, but it should be done within the context of a safety plan that answers these questions:

1. If a woman wants to stay at home, what are some steps she can take if an incident occurs?
2. Is there a specific area at home that is safest?
3. What conversations should happen with kids, supportive neighbors, or work?

Jodi Smith, the Deputy Director of the YWCA , told 22News, "I think when we're in the middle of a situation that is abusive, sometimes it's hard to think when we're by ourselves. To be able to have an advocate, somebody to really talk things through, is one key toward staying safe."